Ok this one I need help one. One of my friends (girl) just lost her boyfriend to canser. She is thinking of killing herself cause he was the world to her. I tryed helping the best I can but Im not sure I did a whole lot. Any ideas on what to do?
No it help thanks to you and a couple others. It was more that it came out of no where just didnt understand why he died (he was 17). Rember all. Every one has a clock and it will it zero but always remeber whwn it does to remebwr the good they did.
Try making her aware she has connections with others that love and feel for her. The memories of her boyfriend are good memories and she has to know that. She should also know that her boy friend wouldn't want her to give up her life. He'd want her to live. To embrace a life he couldn't live. As much as her heart aches she should know the hardest part of loosing someone she has just gone through. She has wonderful memories of him and has them forever with her and with that a piece of him lives within her. Give her a hug and let her cry as much as she needs to. Friends and family should gather around her during this unfortunate time. Her boyfriends parents/family too should be comforted. They've lost a child before his time.